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Steve by Jamey Stillings

Steve Roberts
serves fellow explorers
of life’s two most important questions:
What’s going on,
and what’s the healthiest action I can take in this moment?
To this end, Steve champions
the most fear-provoking point of view
the world has ever known:
Everything is a gift,
and the business of life is discovering how come.
He finds the spirit of the universe to be
playful, loving, deep.
Besides laughter and coaching,
his expressions of this spirit include
several hundred essays,
a novel, some 2000 drawings,
countless stone sculptures
built & photographed
on his Vermont mountainside
over a quarter century, and
a portfolio of professional communication
for clients who wanted someone
who could write like a freight train
driven by Mother Teresa.

Between Me and God

A young woman my wife and I adore––and have known for some 30 years––came to call with her two year-old daughter.  The four of us had not been together since soon after her daughter’s birth.  On the day before their surprise visit, I happened upon an anecdote that set me wondering what it would feel

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What’s Worth Doing

At a recent AA meeting, the topic of discussion was: Why do we keep coming to meetings? Answers beyond the obvious I don’t want to drink take some reflection.  At least for me, sober since ’89. My natural inclination nowadays, when presented with such a question, is to feel that the universe is asking me

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The Future of Outrage

It was a special NPR evening talk show.  The topic was the emerging change in relationships between men and women.  This in the light of the surge of new and deeper revelations of systemic sexism that color those relationships.  This particular show was about men.  One of the guests was a fellow who had spent

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The Gift of a Long-Ago Sweetheart

When I was 25, working as a news announcer for one of Boston’s major radio and television stations, a woman who’d recently graduated from college joined our ranks.  She worked in the newsroom, as did I.  She was African-American.  We became sweethearts for a few years.  Somewhere along the way she said to me that

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Smartness

For a long time I’ve been struck by how the word “smart” and any of its many synonyms is considered such a revered accolade.  What can you call someone other than maybe saint that connotes a quality as desirable?  Yet, I find so widely true Thoreau’s observation: the mass of men lead lives of quiet

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The Road of Excess

You never know what is enough unless you know what is more than enough.  That sentiment by English poet and painter William Blake [1757-1827] has been a source of great comfort for me.  I’ve also heard it as: “The road of excess leads to the palace of wisdom.”  I can’t say I live in the

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Sainthood Here I Come

I’ve figured out the mantra that’s going to make me a saint one of these lifetimes. I’m sharing it case you find it useful. Well, I can’t say I actually “figured” it out.  It came to me the way many of my better ideas arrive: in the wake of being especially unhinged.

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When Love Has Begun

Too long without meditation sends me into the hell of self-absorption, and thus separation, where resides the longing for death (not bodily, but the escape from acute soul misery). And why wouldn’t it?  My world without the conscious presence of the peace that is the essence of the universe, even just the tiny bit I’m

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